Once you've found a suitable Officiant or Minister to perform your Moab Wedding ceremony, touch base with them on your vows. You may choose to write your own from scratch, borrow some wording from a book or online vow website, or have the Officiant come up with the wording. Whatever you choose, let him or her know your wishes. Be sure to proofread the final copy carefully, and review it with your Officiant at least a month before the wedding.

Other important things to discuss with your Officiant are style of dress (theirs, for the ceremony), time and duration of the ceremony, and whether or not you and they can afford to wait for latecomers. You might even consider inviting your Officiant to the wedding reception at this point.